Pillow Talk (It’s not what you think….)
by: Gorgi Olson
👋 Hey Winged Warriors,
Welcome to PURGE theory—your ultimate guide to transforming your living space into a sanctuary of peace, harmony, and unburdened joy.
If you’re tired of drowning in a sea of stuff and craving the calm that comes from a clean, intentional home… you’re in the right place.
🌪 A Little Story From My Messy Childhood
Let me take you back to my childhood.
When our room became a disaster zone, my mom would send my sister and me in to clean it up. We’d walk in reluctantly, totally overwhelmed, with no idea where to begin.🤷♀️
Before long, we’d end up playing with our toys instead of cleaning (duh, we were kids). Hours would pass, and the room would somehow look worse.
Eventually, Mom would step in—frustrated but wise. She’d calmly guide us, pointing out where things belonged and offering small wins to build momentum. With her help, we got moving, and by the end, we were so proud of our work.
Not because the room looked better—but because we felt better.
That planted 2 seeds:
🪴 A clean, organized space = inner peace and JOY.
⏳ someone to help guide = GOLD + hours of saved time.
✨ Fast Forward to Now…
As I got older and had spaces of my own, I started creating systems.
I learned to:
• Give everything a home 🏠
• Let go of things I didn’t need anymore 🧹
• Bounce back faster when messes happened 💪
And you know what? PURGING and organizing became energizing.
I felt lighter. I could breathe easier. I wanted to be in my space instead of escaping from it.
💥 Welcome to PURGE theory
We created PURGE theory to share that transformation with you.
This newsletter is your buddy system on the path to a clearer home and a lighter heart.
Each week, you’ll get:
✅ Practical decluttering tips
✅ Real stories and lessons
✅ Tools and prompts to help you take action
✅ Permission to breathe again
AND if you share with a friend, you can earn special rewards (including a Complete Clutter Type Guide, Purge Tools and more!)
I’m hosting a free live workshop to help you finally start letting go of the clutter.
From Junk Drawers to Joy
🗓️ May 10 @ 10AM MT
or
🗓️ May 15 @ 7PM MT
Save your spot and share with a friend→
It’s free, empowering, and just what your next season is asking for.
🚨 Mark Your Calendar: May 11, 2025
That’s when PURGE party officially launches. 🙌
Every Thursday after that, join us for a live session where we:
• Declutter in real-time
• Follow my foolproof (and actually fun) method
• Make visible progress together
You’ll be PURGING from home with your new favorite support community.
🎁 Want Rewards for PURGING?
We’re launching a referral + rewards program for everyone who joins…
PURGE party
You’ll get:
• 💬 Private coaching with us
• 🎉 Surprise gifts
• 💎 Early access to new resources
Just by sharing:
• This newsletter
• Our social posts
• PURGE party invites
🧚♀️More deets coming soon, but now’s the time to start thinking:🧚♀️
Who do you want to bring with you?
Your sisters? Mom? Bestie? Your ride or die’s…That friend who’s always overwhelmed?
Invite them to join. Let’s turn this into a MOVEMENT.
🛑 This Isn’t Just About Stuff
It’s about:
• Your time
• Your energy
• Your sanity
• YourJOY
A clutter-free home creates space for the life you really want.
Let’s get PURGING.
The journey starts now—and I’m so freaking grateful you’re here. 💛
– Gorgi-
WEEKLY CHALLENGE:
MAKE YOUR BED DAILY…
small act will send a powerful message to your brain, signaling your readiness to take charge and get your home in shape!
What type of Clutter Cleaner are you
- STASHER: I tend to keep items by hiding them away in closets, drawers, or under the bed. I appear organized on the surface, but my hiding spaces are often filled with accumulated clutter.
- PILER: I create piles of items without organizing them properly. My piles can be found on desks, tables, or any available surface. I kinda know where everything is within my piles but still have to search for things when i need them,
- PERFECTIONIST: I have a strong desire for everything to be in perfect order and may spend an excessive amount of time organizing and reorganizing. I sometimes struggle to part with items, as I try to find the "perfect" place for everything
- MINIMALIST: I prefer to keep very few possessions and tend to declutter regularly. I often prioritize simplicity and try to avoid accumulating unnecessary belongings.
- SENTEMENTALIST: I attach sentimental value to many items, making it challenging for me to let go of things with emotional significance. I have difficulty decluttering, even if the items are not practical or useful.
Kyla’s Corner
3 surprising reasons making your bed can change your life as a work from home mom
Alright, boss moms, let’s talk about the elephant in the room—yep, that unmade bed! While I too once thought it seemed trivial with the endless to-dos and the constant juggle of kid(s) and work, trust me, taming this beast can actually set the stage for a smoother day.
Quick Victory:
We all have those never-ending tasks. So why not start the day with a quick victory? Making the bed is a simple win and a practical way to feel a bit more in control from the get-go.
Clarity Amidst Chaos:
A messy bed can translate to a messy mind. A quick tidy-up can be a game-changer for your focus and stress levels. It’s like a mini mental detox every morning!
Leading by Example:
Our little ones are always watching and learning. Demonstrating a bit of daily discipline might just inspire them to bring some order to their own little worlds.
Feeling up for the bed-making challenge? Feel free to join us in the PURGE Party PRO community and share your journey, insights, or amusing mishaps with our tribe of equally hustling, multitasking moms! Let’s attack the chaos and find our calm together!
- Kyla
Dragonfly Magic: Clutter-Busting Tips
Poll: What kind of a bed maker are you???
Is it possible that making your bed can make you happier and more successful?
Who doesn't love a beautiful bed with top notch linens that make you feel like a queen?
But…who has the time and patience to create that daily?
Habits should be simple and making your bed doesn't have to be difficult, take a long time or have a million decorative pillows to look and feel good…
Here is a short video to help you keep it simple.
What about DRAGONFLIES?

What about DRAGONFLIES?
Embrace Your Inner Dragonfly: Soaring as a Winged Warrior in the PURGE Journey
Hey there, fellow Winged Warriors! As we embark on this incredible PURGE journey together, I couldn't help but think about the enchanting dragonfly. Yes, that delicate yet resilient creature that flits through the air with grace and purpose. But what makes the dragonfly so amazing? Well, it's more than just its beautiful wings and mesmerizing flight.
Just like the dragonfly, we are Winged Warriors, setting forth on a transformational adventure. Let me show you the magic that unfolds when we see ourselves through the lens of this incredible insect.
🌙Resilience in the Face of Change🌙
Dragonflies go through remarkable changes in their life cycle. They start as tiny nymphs underwater, then emerge as stunning creatures of the air. Similarly, our PURGE journey is a series of transformations. We're shedding the old and embracing the new, just like the dragonfly's stunning metamorphosis.
⚡️Masters of Adaptation⚡️
Dragonflies can swiftly change direction mid-flight, adapting to their surroundings effortlessly. As Winged Warriors, we're also masters of adaptation. We navigate the twists and turns of decluttering and organizing, adjusting our approach as we uncover new insights about ourselves and our spaces.
🌟In Pursuit of Lightness🌟
Have you ever noticed the dragonfly's ability to hover gracefully above water? It's a symbol of lightness, of letting go. As we declutter, we're shedding the weight of unnecessary belongings, just like the dragonfly leaving ripples behind but soaring freely.
💫The Power of Flight💫
Dragonflies are incredible fliers, darting and dancing through the air with precision. Similarly, as Winged Warriors, we're taking flight in our decluttering journey. We're regaining control of our spaces, soaring towards a clutter-free haven that allows us to breathe, think, and dream.
✨A Symbol of Change and Growth✨
Throughout history and across cultures, the dragonfly has symbolized change, transformation, and self-realization. Just like our journey with PURGE theory, the dragonfly reminds us that change is not just inevitable – it's beautiful.
So, fellow Winged Warriors, let's embrace our inner dragonflies. Let's be resilient, adaptable, and light as we journey through our decluttering adventure. Let's take flight towards a clutter-free, liberated existence, just like the dragonfly dancing on the wind.
We're not just decluttering; we're transforming our lives. Let's fly together, embracing every change and growth. You've got this – spread your wings and soar! 🌟🪶🐉
One of our favorite hangers here at PURGE theory is this one from Wallys World. They are inexpensive, grips your clothes enough not to slip off yet not enough that they stick to the hanger. Slim, white with a POP of blue…will make you excited to organize your closet after you PURGE
My Favorite quilt…I have had this one for 5 years. It has been used in 3 different AirBnB’s that I owned and now is used as a staple in my home on all of my beds…light weight, washes well, drys quickly and is super soft…LOVE this one!!! Comes in several colors…Making your bed will be easy!
Winged Warriors Before & After
Before

After

Just want to thank you for the skills you taught me…its been about a year since I unpacked my closet (it was a mess)…I threw out everything I haven’t worn in a year-put things back that didn’t belong, reorganized and refined!! Thank you again.
🌟Dragonfly Dreams 🌟
We are excited to introduce you to "Dragonfly Dreams" – a section designed to ignite your imagination and open doors to exciting new horizons.
🦋 Why "Dragonfly Dreams"? 🦋
Just like the dragonfly, which symbolizes transformation and adaptability, this section is all about embracing change and discovering fresh possibilities. As you declutter your life and create space for new adventures, we want to provide you with inspiration.
Each edition will showcase a business that aligns with the PURGE theory spirit, one that can help you spread your wings and explore something new. It could be a local cooking class, an online fitness program, a travel adventure, a book you have always wanted to write, a creative workshop or even a new business idea. The possibilities are as boundless as the sky.
Imagine the thrill of trying something you've always dreamed of or never even thought of, until now…unburdened by the clutter that held you back. Picture yourself embarking on a journey that brings joy, fulfillment, and a renewed sense of purpose.
But: "Dragonfly Dreams" isn't just about us. We want to hear from you, our PURGE community! If you have a business in mind that you believe can inspire others on their journey to declutter and embrace new experiences, let us know. Share your ideas, and together, we'll make dreams take flight.
So, stay tuned for our next feature, and be ready to dream big…🤗